Different peole have different points of view towars Eye Gazing.  Some think it’s the way to get to know people.  Some think it’s weird.  Some think it’s one kind of sharings sincerely and honestly.  Some think it’s uncomfortable.  Some think it’s a matter of self confidence.  And how about yours?

 Personall, when I first heard of it, I thougt it’s weird.  However, when I think about it, it’s not bad.  As I really love sitting at the cafe, kinda reading or kinda doing nothing.  Even though I may have my favorite book in hands, I still like to look around to see what other people are doing.  And in a cafe, you can see alot, a lot indeed!  Some couples come and share the cheesecake together, looking at each other sweetly, but not really chatting much.  Some, I guess they are just friends, come and just have a coffee, and just sit there, talk and talk and talk non stop.  Some come by themselves, sitting there reading a newspaper or working on something with their laptop. 

Somehow I find the lovers usually speak less than the others.  They do enjoy looking at each other. 

Talking about myself, I do find it’s true.  When one’s in love, what can be more precious than looking at the apple in their eyes?  Just by looking at him/her, you can feel that he/she is talking to you in a silent way.  In a way that no one else can interrupt.  It’s a world just contain you two. 

When you look at someone quietly into their eyes, perhaps you can explore more than when you two are talking.  Eyes, some call them the windows of the soul, perhaps can really reveal you the secret side of that person.  I guess, it just depends on if you are skilfull enough to open the windows even when you’re given the chance.

One may think it’s weird or it’s comfortable for them to do it.  However, I do agree it’s a matter of self confidence and a sincere and honest approach.  Words can be deceitful.  Sweet talks are always pleased to hear, but they are not always true to know.  Words can blink one’s eyes and heart, but eyes cannot.  Eyes may not always tell you things, but at least they can’t tell lies as the lips do.  They are silent, but honset.

So, do you dare to stare?